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Ferrymead Heritage Park

I’m always slightly intrigued by enthusiasts who spend so much of their free time indulging their passion and sharing it with the general public.  This is essentially what Ferrymead Heritage Park is, a group of heritage enthusiasts who spend their time preserving, and living, the past for future generations.  They’ve been doing it since the 1960s, incidentally on the site of New Zealand’s first public railway.  On Sunday three generations of my family went along for their annual Children’s Day, which meant free entry, free sausages and lots of extra exhibits and stalls for children and families.

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Ferrymead High Street

We hopped on the tram as soon as we entered the park.  The loveliest of grey haired gentlemen drive the trams and keep the safety rails down and all the little hands and feet inside.  Wooden carriages in beautiful condition, are a pleasure to ride in.  Reminds me of the trams in San Francisco where they too have revived old cable cars which are used in general service.

The tram
The tram

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My favourite at Ferrymead is the houses, in full working order, complete with people ‘living’ inside, in costume.  The house I chose to visit (I was only allowed one…) had a woman in the front room making a baby quilt, a gentleman playing a pianola, which the boys had a turn peddling, two kids eating their lunch in the kitchen, and a woman and her daughter playing in the children’s bedroom upstairs.  It’s pretty realistic, so much so, that I felt slightly odd peering at what the kids were having for lunch – cheese sandwiches!  I chatted to the pianola player, who turned out to be a food technology teacher at a local intermediate school.  Having spent all week with kids, all credit to him for then spending his Sunday cooped up in a hot, dark living room pumping the pedals of a pianola.

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Original 3D

Further on down the High Street we came across a sign that even the boys could read, Free Sausage Sizzle, and after a surprisingly short queue, we were all in possession of hot sausages in bread and tomato sauce.  A classic kiwi lunch sure to please.  We sat under the trees and enjoyed the entertainment – a variety show of small children’s music, and some impressive young singers, through to martial arts and Suzuki violin.  The boys were keen to try out the adapted wheelchairs for basketball, rugby, and racing.  It was harder than it looked.

We left the wheelchairs with a whole new respect for those who play sport in them and lined up on the platform to wait for the steam train.  It was just like being back in England, except without the yellow line to stand behind I had a running battle to keep the boys safe while they enthusiastically peered up the line for the train.  When it arrived and the crush of people getting off had barged through the mass of people waiting to get on (Cantabrians are unskilled at getting on and off trains), we squashed on and stood like sardines, so very reminiscent of many train and tube journeys in London.  We then heard there was a 20minute wait (even more reminiscent) but the boys were unperturbed as they had a prime view on the carriage platform.  Finally departing on the loop, the boys thoroughly enjoyed their ride, complete with earsplitting whistles.

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Train light - pretty isn't it
Train light – pretty isn’t it

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Too hot for a jacket
Too hot for a jacket

The earthquakes haven’t left Ferrymead unaffected and their Hall of Flames with their marvellous display of vintage fire engines was closed.  Somewhat disappointed, but now thankfully tiring, we went instead to their next favourite place, the miniature trains.  Noses and sticky hands pressed up against the glass and they pointed and exclaimed at the tiny trains.  It really is enthralling to watch these miniature trains travel through a slice of history, in perfection.  Grey haired men watch carefully over their handiwork and little boys wish to have a turn.  Thankfully the glass prevents them from asking.

Tired and happy, with iced lollies to lick on the walk back to the car, we head home from Ferrymead.  Despite being very busy, the park had a real buzz about it which was nice to be a part of.  And with free entry, we’ll be back next year.

Ferrymead High Street
Ferrymead High Street

Emergency Services Family Day

As soon as I heard that the Emergency Services were having a Family Day I knew the boys would be dead keen to go (yes I do realise the phrase I used…).  We’ve seen these different rescue agencies at their best during the aftermath of the earthquakes here, but I thought it would be really good for the boys to see them when they were putting on a show rather than a brave face.

So after Saturday morning tennis we headed out to Pegasus Town, a contrived new town still waiting for its inhabitants, about 20minutes drive north of Christchurch.   All the different rescue agencies had been invited: Westpac Rescue (Air Ambulance), NZ Army, Civil Defence, USAR (Urban Search and Rescue) NZ Fire Service, Rural Fire Service, St Johns Ambulance, NZ Police, Surf Lifesaving, Red Cross, and the NZ Coastguard.  They couldn’t have been friendlier.  Every agency we visited had something for the boys to see, do, clamber over or explore inside, and they made the most of it.  Here are our favourites:

NZ Army

The two boys clambered through the truck had the soldier on the roof happily let them have a look through the scope mounted gun, and the soldier on the ground handed his gun over to my eldest who was itching to have a hold.

Westpac Rescue Helicopter

Having had their Otago colleagues airlift my youngest son from our holiday home to hospital after a prolonged seizure, we had a long chat with the crew.  The little one was fascinated to see the helicopter up close having heard so much about it, but not having any memory of it.

We then watched them work with the surf lifesavers to demonstrate a water rescue where a paramedic jumped out of the helicopter into the lake, secured a member of the Surf Lifesaving Club, and then winched to the helicopter and transferred to land.  The helicopter then demonstrated a dry land rescue where they winched a person from the ground into the helicopter.  Impressive to see.  And then their movements picked up the pace and there was a flurry of activity as an emergency call came in and they headed off on another mission – a motor vehicle crash in Governors Bay.

Rural Fire Service

They had a good clamber through the Rural Fire helicopter with its monsoon bucket, and then watched the pilot demonstrate his impressive flying skills with a monsoon bucket attached.

Search and Rescue

At camp this week Search and Rescue (SAR) had come in and done a couple of exercises with the kids which highlighted the importance of how hard it is to search and find something, and the importance of bright clothing in the bush.  Alpine and Cliff SAR had a rigging up with a bucket that the littlest one needed no encouragement to jump in and be shown how they rig up patients.

Alpine & Cliff Search and Rescue
Alpine & Cliff Search and Rescue

NZ Fire Service

The boys had seen smoke and ran to investigate.  To their delight the Fire Service had a fire which they were lighting, letting the kids put it out with a fire extinguisher, and lighting it again for another turn.  Needless to say they happily queued.

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3 Days as Camp Parent

School camp, in one form or another, is a rite of passage for many children the world over.  Here in New Zealand they are a feature of the school year from about Year 5. This week it was my eldest son’s turn to experience the fun and adventure of three days at camp, and I was one of four parents who went along for the ride.  We are fortunate that Christchurch is fairly close to the mountains and camp was at Pudding Hill, nestled at the foot of the Southern Alps.

Shortly after arrival we headed off up the hill into the bush to walk to a reserve where we picnicked and played games in the sun.  Our school is fairly unique in that half of the children come from countries other than New Zealand.  This means that firstly, the food provided by parents for camp was delicious, and secondly, walking in the bush (as well as many of the other activities) were first time experiences for many of the children, and they LOVED it.  We made bivouacs (just like Bear Grylls) and it was hard as parents not to help out as we had so many fond memories of making huts ourselves, so we blew the rules and got stuck in.

The class teacher was particularly looking forward to the water slide that was in store for the afternoon – a giant sheet of black plastic, held down by tyres, that ran down the hill in front of the lodge.  Covered with water and dishwashing liquid it becomes an adrenalin filled ride down the hill.  It wasn’t long before the parents and teachers were hopping into line with the kids for turn after turn of whooping and laughing.

The weather the next morning reminded us that we were indeed in the mountains and we set off in grey, drizzly conditions wrapped up for warmth.  A short hike over the hill took us to Pudding Hill stream and we practised our river crossing skills group by group, as we made our way back down the stream to camp for mugs of steaming Milo.

Abseiling was something I’ve done before and enjoyed, and standing at the bottom of the rope I felt so proud of the kids for placing all their trust in a rope and harness as they leaned backwards over a cliff and slowly worked their way down.  More bravery than tears, and a lot of encouragement from our Camp Guide and every one in our team made it down.

Having seen them grow as a team I was hopeful they’d complete the Low Ropes Course well, and they did.  A series of challenges designed to foster strategic thinking and team work, they balanced along ropes, laughed as they helped each person scramble through a tyre, and transferred the team along a log without falling off.  Now chilly and still grey I was looking forward to a blat on our bikes and we headed off down the road, across a farmers track and back up to the reserve.

Feeling much more energised after a good dose of endorphins it was time for the kids to make their own pizzas, a newspaper costume competition and finished off the evening with toasted marshmallows.

The final morning saw a beautiful sunrise and the weary kids emerge from their bunk rooms ready for another day.  Archery is something I’ve never tried, and the kids were very keen to give it a go, some having seen ‘The Hunger Games’ and some the  movie ‘Brave’.  They were surprisingly good and three in our team shot bulls eyes.  One of the other parents enjoyed it so much she’s thinking of taking it up as a sport.  Time to clean and pack and head back to the stream with our packed lunches for a final picnic and play in the water.  Some impressive dams were built and most feet got wet.  Packed into cars we headed back to Christchurch, all tired, happy, and with a fair number of new experiences under our belt.

As a parent I felt privileged to be part of these kids’ lives for three days, to watch them grow as individuals, work together as a team and bond as a class.  I was so proud of my particular team and how well they encouraged each other, enjoyed success and became friends.  Thanks very much for having me Room 3!

Contentment is a state of mind

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I’ve wondered about contentment the last few years. We read about people who are content, and I have yearned to be like them.  I’ve read around the subject a little and thought quite a lot about it and my conclusion is: Contentment is a state of mind.

Here are some of the thoughts I’ve read and found helpful:

“The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts”

“Search for the beauty in everything because it’s there if you look hard enough”

“You can’t control what happens in your life, but you can control how you react”

“Joy is not in things; it is in us”

“The bend in the road is not the end of the road, unless you fail to make the turn”

“Live in the present because it’s all there is”

I tried to think of an appropriate image to use to illustrate contentment and google came up with predictably cheesy ones, but for me, when I’m content, is when my boys are happy and we’re doing something together.  So that’s the image I chose. A hot summers day at the beach, together, just being.